Why are Men Insensitive
Part 2
Women find it easy to make a conversation and are very adaptable at moving the conversation from one topic to another. Conversly, men, on average, struggle to adapt the conversation and can not hold a conversation for as long as a women. Of course there are exceptions and some men are born with female oriented brains.
The majority of men do not set out to actively
offend a woman by saying insensitive things.
They say insensitive things for a number of reasons:
- They word things wrong, so that they sound insensitive. Saying one thing but meaning something different.
- They don't understand what is insensitive to women. When men talk to other men, anything goes. In fact the more outlandish the comments to another man, the more funny other men find it. They forget that women do not like to talk about the same things.
- Women analyse what men say and try to find an inner meaning to what they say. In general there is no inner meaning to what a man says. So men say one thing, women hear something else because they analyse it as if it was a woman talking.
- Then there is the loaded question. Need I say anything about that ladies. Where you ask a question that has no correct answer. That is very cruel and plays on the fact that men are not socially intelligent. Naughty ladies!
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In real terms men are the weaker sex |
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Men are emotionally weaker
In real terms men are the weaker sex. They are emotionally weak as compared to women. This is because men don't know how to handle emotions. The society never taught them how to handle emotions. This does not mean men are insensitive. This only means that men really don't have a clue how to behave in a sensitive situation.
What to do now?
First and foremost, you have to remove the thought from your mind that men are insensitive. Secondly if ever you feel that your man is being insensitive to your feelings, try to look at the world from his point of view. Don't think that he can never feel your emotions.
He is very well aware of it. The only thing that is stopping him are those conditioned theories that the society has fed into his mind. So instead of blaming that men are insensitive, try to help them out. Try to help them sort their emotional issues. How you ask? By love and patience. Love your man forgetting his shortcomings and you will soon realize how beautiful a relationship can be.
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